Showing posts with label Self-Respect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self-Respect. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Undeserved Reward in Schools

Posted by Mr. Wykes for Crane:

Educators and psychologists say we're bringing up a generation of people with higher “self esteem.” I say we're raising a group of aimless individuals who can't tell failure from success. All in the name of the avoidance of hurt feelings, the powers that be have decided that such labels are inappropriate, or that only “success” be used. They find it too demeaning to tell a student that what they've done is not acceptable or satisfactory, or even to admit another's work surpasses it. This leads to what we have now, a belief system where “everyone wins,” which is truly the same as everyone losing.

What these well meaning leaders are striving for is equality: equality and the removal of any way to rise above and be rewarded for one's achievements. When an individual is unable to gain extra reward or recognition for above average abilities and accomplishments, it is well known what happens.

Whatever group is doing the equalizing becomes yet another example of what happened to Communism. When poor work and exemplary work are equally rewarded, there is no reason to do well. If equal reward is given to a C student and an A student, why put in the extra work for an A? Drive and purpose is stripped from those who could aptly use them.

Fortunately, we aren't quite this far, yet. A straight A student who scored a 32 on the ACT will be accepted into a college far ahead of a C student who earned an 18. But we are moving farther down the road of equality. Look at all the opportunities that are given to failing students in public schools. It is literally illegal to expel someone for getting Fs, unless they do so until they are no longer eligible for high school. Why is this? Why can failure not be met with its just reward? If a student is not so handicapped as to be placed in special education, they have no excuse to fail school. In fact, such students could not fail if they only put forth effort, but now when they don't, there is always some way it isn't their fault.

The danger here is that we may soon apply this logic to the other end of the grading scale. For true equality, not rewarding high achievers is just as necessary as not punishing those who achieve nothing. This is where we are headed if we continue down this road. And the potential effect most don't realize is the destruction of our schools' efficiency. When the great goal of full equality is reached and all students will receive the same treatment for all levels of effort and talent, there will be absolutely no reason to work harder and do better. Just as in Communist nations, the output and productiveness of every person will be identical, which means it will all be mediocre. Equality works; everything is brought down to the level of the lowest common denominator.

This attitude of making everyone feel good about themselves no matter how they perform may sound like the politically correct and “kind” way of doing things. In fact, it is. But it isn't the logical and beneficial method. As long as there is varying reward for varying levels of aptitude and success, society will run as it should. But when the day of full equality dawns, I fear what will happen to our educational system and all that it effects.

Monday, October 5, 2009

The Desensitization of Sex in modern American culture

All we have to do is turn on the television or go on the Internet to find out what the media selling us. Here's a hint: its sex. More than ever sex has become a huge part of our media and culture. For the first time we are seeing more and more ads asking us if were lonely, sexually active, or are wishing to be sexually active. Commercials for condoms, male and female enhancement products, and personal lubricants plague our television, proposing to increase the experience tenfold every time you make love. Meanwhile, every time you log on to the Internet, ads for meeting single men or women (offering to help you "get laid tonight!!!"), or pop-ups offering pornography bombard your eyes, and, sometimes, ears now that audio has been added to many online advertisements.

The fact of the matter is, sex just isn't sacred anymore. Due to the subtle or outright assault by the media's use of sexual advertising, sex is in the same boat as video games. They're both viewed as offering brief entertainment, a sense of worth, (when you beat the game) and a relief from stress and tensions. Sex isn't meant to be a tool for us to entertain ourselves with, its an act that's supposed to be beautiful, sacred, and only with someone you love and who loves you back, completely. Catholics would argue that this carnal delight is only for those who are married, but the majority of us ignore that fact. And, why do we ignore it? I argue human nature. Sex feels good, period. It's in our nature to do what feels good as soon as possible and also as often as possible. But, we don't to destroy the ideas of love, tastefullness, and self-control in the process.

Though our sights can get muddled with all this stuff in our media, we need to get it straight what our goals are if we consider ourselves respectable. Like I said, sex can be a beautiful and amazing thing if it's between two people who love each other and keep the idea honorable in their hearts instead of an indulgent generation such asmine and my friends, who treat sex as if it were the most unimportant and passing thing in the world. I propose something unheard of to my generation; wait. Wait until you truly know you're in love with the person that you want to do this with. Don't risk your health and your self-respect by wasting this gift with someone you barely know or care about. Otherwise you might as well be throwing love away and all that love stands for. We can stay respectable in this sense as an American society. It's possible, it just takes a few changes. I talk to my generation when I say, don't listen to the media. Their best interest is themselves. Its been that way forever and it always be. We have the priviledge of having a Christian education. If nothing, our religion has tought us to value love above all other human emotions. Don't make a mockary of love by being an indulgent, perverse being by having sex with people you don't love or care about.

Now I will counter david's funny picture with one of my ownnnnn MUAHAHAHAHA!

(This user's picture was removed by Mr. Wykes due to its insensitive nature. Trust me on this one, it was funny and stuff. Just not appropriate.)